How to avoid\cope with "poisoning people" ?

First of all i would like to talk a little bit about "who are poisoning people?" to beat the enemy you need to know the enemy first ,in our case "poisoning people can be your mother (even tho it's hard to belive) or another close family member (sister or brother etc)"poisoning people are most of the time un treated mental cases ,in most of the time "they dont need help" so they have never been diagnosed ,most of the time  those "poisoning people" are "100% kosher" sober folks who never used marijuana or drank alcohol ,now alcohol is EXTREMLY bad for you ,but i just wanted to put a focus on the "mental fixation" those people have ,in many cases they suffer from OCD or and other issues ,in street language they are "life less" people who choose to project their issues on you and throw all their bitterness on you !

Now after we defined who are those people we will learn how to beat theme....most of the time these people unfortunately had VERY hard life circumstance or past and they are VERY bitter ,this why we will focus on how to treat theme with love...

1) achieve minimum exposure to theme ,if they after 20 most of the times you will NOT be able to change theme

2)if they suffer from alcohol abuse do your best to help theme to get professional help ,trying doing so with minimum exposure ,always remember even tho we love those people sometimes they can really hurt us ,since our best is above all sometimes it's better to keep alittle bit (not completely) away from theme until they....read paragraph 3 (:

3)if they single/divorced/widow try helping  theme to find new love !!!  offer to register theme to a specific (to their status) dating website or dating service

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4)buy theme some new music ,focus on "world music" and "chill-out" music ,try the band "Spohngle" they make really reallynice psychedelic soft chill out with a million $ production ,really nice ,what works best is buying theme a new chill out cd with a pack of "Nag Chapma" (my favorite incense stick's,imported from India) ! the combination effects 2 of their senses and will help theme to calm down a bit ,i call it "meditation without meditation"

5)this trick works well for psychologist so for sure it will work for you as well ! every time you are about to meet those people imagine a "virtual trash can" in your head ,see this trash can and then after you met those people and you are soaked with their bad vibe after they are gone take this bad vibe and just throw it in the "virtual trash can" and then deeply imagine yourself throwing those bad vibes into this trash can ! psychologist do it to treat "heavy clients" so there is no reason you will not try it for yourself !

6) this tip is a bit more general, don't forget that coping with this people might consume allot of your inner energy...this can really harm you...thus you must maintain very good and smart diet ,try consume as much super foods as you can, don't forget to eat enough proteins per day to maintain correct brain function (organic eggs absorbed really well  and contains many of the proteins needed for good brain functioning)

7) in some cases ,medical marijuana (when given for example to reduce pain) have been reported to ease the symptoms of bitterness and in some cases works as light "aphrodisiac" ,of course i dont recommend using medical marijuana ,only a physician can recommend such thing and for a proper reason (eliminating bitterness is not one of theme,unless you live in Cali lol) but you get my point ,i think no matter what medical marijuana in very smart and controlled (under supervision of a psychologist and a physician) is way much more effective then regular RX "big pharma" anti depressant pills or other anti anxiety RX "big pharma pills (RX means only with prescription) ,i just heard few days ago the bead "big pharma - bad karma" (: